Hospitality Can Be Fun

Whatever happened to good old-fashioned hospitality? You know the drill these days. Walk into a giant box store, wander around aimlessly looking for what you need, avoid eye contact with everyone, scan your own items at checkout, and head home without speaking to a single human being. Mission accomplished… I guess.

Recently, I was on the hunt for a pair of high-end walking shoes. I had a certain brand in mind, so I headed to a sporting goods store to begin the search. Off to the shoe department I went.

That’s where I met Robert.

First, I asked Robert if they carried the brand I originally wanted. Nope. No problem. Then I asked about another brand. Robert personally walked me over to that display. Still not quite right. So I asked about yet another brand. Once again, Robert cheerfully led the way.

At this point, I was probably becoming his cardio workout for the day.

Finally, I found the perfect pair, tried them on, and made the purchase.

While checking out, I mentioned to the cashier how incredibly helpful the shoe department guy had been. Before I could even finish describing him, she smiled and said, “Oh… Robert.” Apparently Robert’s friendliness is legendary around there.

Now here’s where the story gets even better.

That same evening, my wife and I were enjoying some BBQ at a local restaurant when in walks Robert to pick up a to-go order. As he passed by our table, I called out, “Robert?”

He stopped with that classic “Do I know you?” look on his face.

I pointed down at my new shoes.

Instant recognition.

With a big smile he said they looked great on me, and we all laughed. I told him honestly that his friendliness and willingness to help were the reason we stayed and bought the shoes there. Robert shared how much he genuinely enjoys serving people and helping customers have a good experience.

We shook hands, laughed a little more, and suddenly buying shoes turned into making a friend.

That’s the thing about hospitality. It doesn’t have to be fancy or complicated. Sometimes it’s just a smile, learning someone’s name, or taking a few extra steps—literally—to help someone out.

In a world that can sometimes feel rushed and rude, hospitality still stands out. And honestly… it makes life a lot more fun.

Rick Cadden

Rick Cadden

Rick Cadden, CCA, CCBA, is a Certified Church Business Administrator with more than 30 years of leadership experience in hospitality services and church operations. He has served churches in a variety of executive and administrative roles and is a speaker at national and regional conferences.