Going the Extra Mile

In today’s fast-paced culture, “going the extra mile” almost feels like a lost art. Most people are just trying to survive the day, do the minimum required, and move on to the next thing. Efficiency rules. Convenience wins. And hospitality? Sometimes it feels like it got left behind somewhere around 2019. But this week on vacation, we were reminded that there are still people who choose to do more.

One of our beach-trip traditions is stopping for custom heat press shirts. Every year it’s one of our first vacation stops. I may have a slight beach shirt obsession, but that’s a different conversation.

We’ve shopped at the same store for years, mainly because the customer service is consistently incredible. The atmosphere is fun, welcoming, and patient — which is important because choosing shirt designs with us is not a quick process.

If you’ve never picked out custom beach shirts before, here’s how it works: you choose a large print for the back and then try to find the perfect matching pocket print for the front. Sounds simple enough… until you realize there are hundreds of choices and suddenly everyone becomes an art critic.

Over the years we’ve met all kinds of people working in the print area of this store: international students working summer programs, an older gentleman named Rick who visited the beach so often he finally just moved there, and a lady who knew heat press printing like a master chef knows recipes.

This year we met Nathan.

There we stood flipping through pages of prints, holding shirts up to the light, changing colors, second-guessing ourselves, and generally turning a five-minute decision into a full production. Most places would have started pushing us along after about ten minutes. Not Nathan.

He patiently helped us compare prints, offered suggestions, laughed with us, and never once acted rushed. He genuinely seemed to enjoy helping customers get exactly what they wanted.

After about 30 minutes, we finally landed on the perfect combination. Vacation shirts secured.

Then came the surprise.

Nathan told us he was actually the General Manager over five stores owned by the company. The regular employee for the print station was off that day and there was no backup, so Nathan stepped in himself.

Think about that for a minute.

He could have easily stayed in an office handling schedules, emails, and manager duties. He could have left the station empty for the day and blamed staffing shortages like most businesses do now. Instead, he jumped in, served customers, and made the experience enjoyable.

And honestly, he handled it like a pro.

That’s what going the extra mile looks like. It’s choosing service over status. It’s stepping in when needed instead of stepping away. It’s understanding that hospitality isn’t just a job title — it’s an attitude.

Funny thing is, we’ll probably remember Nathan long after we wear these shirts out.

That’s the power of treating people well.

Rick Cadden

Rick Cadden

Rick Cadden, CCA, CCBA, is a Certified Church Business Administrator with more than 30 years of leadership experience in hospitality services and church operations. He has served churches in a variety of executive and administrative roles and is a speaker at national and regional conferences.